A funeral home in Herne Bay is providing a lifeline to local families, after research found that Father’s Day can be a difficult time for the bereaved.
As Father’s Day approaches, many families in Kent prepare to celebrate, but for those who have lost a father or father figure, it can be a challenging time. In fact, recent research shows that 58% of those who have suffered a bereavement find calendar events, like Father’s Day, make the grieving process more difficult.
Taking place from 12pm – 2.30pm on the first Wednesday of every month, with the next session due on Wednesday 2 July, the group is led by Richard Meares, Funeral Arranger at Co-op Funeralcare Herne Bay, who was moved to form the group following the loss of his aunt early in his career.
Richard said, “After losing my aunt, my uncle told me that he felt alone following the funeral. It made me realise just how many people are left to cope in silence, and how much of a difference aftercare could have on their experience.”
Held at the Herne Bay branch, on Sea Street, the sessions provide attendees with the chance to connect with others experiencing loss, while enjoying hot drinks and refreshments. The group is open to people of all ages and backgrounds, with attendees ranging from those in their 20s to those in their 80s.
Richard continued, “The group is about giving people permission to speak honestly about where they’re at. Grief can make you feel like a burden – even to those closest to you. Here, people can talk freely, without judgment or pressure. Some come to speak, others to simply listen, but everyone is welcome.”
Alongside the group, Richard offers one-to-one support and works with local celebrants to ensure people can access further help if needed.
In the two years since it began, the group has become a valuable part of the local community. One attendee, struggling after the loss of her husband, was gently supported through a series of sessions to take small but manageable steps forward in her grief.
Reflecting on the initiative, Richard said: “It’s helped shape who I am – both personally and professionally.
“People may assume our job is done once the funeral has taken place but this couldn’t be further from the truth, and I feel privileged to be able to support our community in such a meaningful way. Grief is never easy, but knowing there’s someone there to listen can make all the difference.”
The bereavement group is free to attend, and no booking is required. For more information, contact Co-op Funeralcare Herne Bay, on hernebay@letsco-operate.com or 01227 375683.
To find out more about Co-op Funeralcare, Herne Bay, visit: Co-op Funeralcare, Herne Bay – Co-op (coop.co.uk)
* Research conducted by 3Gem. Total sample size was 1,500 adults. Fieldwork undertaken in June 2025.
